What do you do when two of your good friends end up in an argument?
Do you...
Option 1, sit still like a conniving little bitch watching how situation worsens
or...
Option 2, be the ''little angel'' to resolve the conflict?
Well, I was met with this situation and chose the latter
Its really difficult to encode, channel and decode what other people are trying to say. Firstly, you've got to think ahead of them, make sure whatever comments they are going to made wouldn't have any impact on anyone. You must be able to stand at a point of neutrality inorder to channel information from both sides in your brain. Lastly, you decode the information given to you and conclude whose in the wrong. After that, you will try to be tactful and talk sense to the person who has made the mistake.
As you try to convey your message to the targeted audience, they bound to get defensive, and in the end, whose in the losing end? YUP, the Busybody which is ME! Some people just don't understand that words are such powerful tools that can even thrust deeper than a knife. If they are unable to realise or admit their own mistakes, they'll learn it the hard way...
What goes around, comes around... You pay for the rightful amount of consequences upon the mishaps you showered on other people... It's a balance in life ;3
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